Often it is hard for all of us to accept the changes we experience in life. Our “used to” attitude does not let us leave our comfort zones. We want things to move the way we want and the moment the track is deviated, the feelings of uneasiness, discomfort take over us. These feelings make us repel ourselves. We try to get in the “used to” loop again. But often what we forget is that change is the law of nature. Whatever you resist, it persists. Often this tussle leads to endless episodes of ups and downs.
The only way we can help ourselves is to embrace the changes around us, be more flexible to trying new things. Most importantly, it becomes imperative for us to accept the people around us as they are rather than trying to mould them the way we want. Be more open, more flexible. Things would be simpler and easy to go with.